The Guidebook for Co-parent Projects 8-12

BUILD a HIGH-NURTURANCE STEPFAMILY

By Peter Gerlach, MSW; Member NSRC Experts Council

available now in hardcover, softcover, and e-book formats

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Book Contents

Why Read This Book? ........................................................

9

First Things First . . . ..........................................................

16

Acknowledgements ............................................................

23

PART 1: FOUNDATIONS

25

1) About This Series ...........................................................

27

2) Get The Most From This Book .........................................

36

3) What’s A High-nurturance Family? ...................................

50

4) A Re/Marital Quiz ...........................................................

73

5) Stepfamily Realities ........................................................

82

6) Why Most U.S. Re/marriages Fail .....................................

91

7) 12 Long-term Co-parent Projects ......................................

107

PART 2: CO-PARENT PROJECTS 8-12

120

Project 8: Nourish Your Re/marriage .....................................

122

Project 9a) Merge Your Biofamilies ......................................

155

Project 9b) Resolve Merger Stressors ...................................

174

Project10a) Build an Effective Co-parenting Team ..................

212

Project 10b) Effective Child Discipline In Stepfamilies ............

247

Project 11: Build A Support Network ....................................

281

Project 12: Balance All, And Enjoy! .....................................

 320

15) Troubleshooting And Recap ..........................................

340

PART 3: RESOURCES

349

A) Worksheet: False-Self Traits ............................................

351

B) Stepfamily Adjustment Tasks ..........................................

364

C) How We Handle Loyalty Conflicts ....................................

379

D) Worksheet: A Relationship Profile ...................................

384

E) Relationship Strengths And Stressors ..............................

389

F) Discover Your Current Priorities .......................................

399

G) What Your (Step)Kids Need.............................................

404

H) Stepfamily Relationship Terms .........................................

434

I ) Selected Resources ........................................................

487
Index ................................................................................. 503

Mail order this comprehensive, unique, 516-page modular reference book as a hardcover, softcover, or e-book from Xlibris.com or other online and "brick-and-mortar" booksellers. You'll get the most value if you also invest in at least the prior volume Stepfamily Courtship. Both are for courting and re/married co-parents and their supporters. So are the related volumes The Remarriage Book  (Project 8) and Build a Co-parenting Team  (Project 10 - increase harmony and effectiveness among ex mates and stepparents).

      I'd value any questions you have about the book or series, or feedback about it. I hope you find these books and related Web resources clear, informative, inspiring, and useful!

- Peter Gerlach

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Updated August 04, 2008