Family Hazards and Co-parent Safeguards

Premises: (1) typical divorcing and stepfamily co-parents will face four or five major barriers to evolving high-nurturance family relationships. (2) co-parents can overcome their barriers by working patiently together on some or all of 12 safeguard Projects, ideally starting during courtship. Here's how the projects relate to each barrier or hazard:

Barrier 1: significant false-self  wounds Projects 1, 2, & 5
Barrier 2: shared unawareness Projects 1-12
Barrier 3: blocked grief in adults and/or kids Projects 1-5
Barrier 4: Each partner making up to three unwise courtship choices Projects 1-7
Barrier 5: Little awareness of these barriers and safeguard Projects in the media and lay and professional family supporters Projects 1-12 +
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