About Family Project 1

        One of several widespread stressors in troubled families and relationships is one or more adults or kids not knowing they have significant psychological wounds from low-nurturance childhoods. Unseen, these wounds combine with unawareness of key topics to promote unwise marital choices + ineffective communication + wounding minor children + blocked grief + toxic relationships + eventual divorce + illness and premature death.

        To lower the odds of these tragedies, Project 1 helps adults (a) learn some basic concepts, (b) assess themselves and others for significant false-self wounds, and (c) to heal where needed. This vital project is best started before deciding whether to marry. It continues for some years along with up to 10 other co-parent Projects. All 10 depend on progress on Project 1 and Project 2:  develop effective communication skills. The guidebook for Project 1 is Who's *Really* Running Your Life?

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