Six Vital Courtship Questions

        Studying the first six of 12 divorce-prevention Projects in this Web site can prepare courting partners to answer key questions wisely, so they can choose the right people to commit to, for the right reasons, at the right time.

  • Is my true Self answering these questions? If not, your answers may be distorted.

  • What needs am I trying to fill by committing?

  • Why should I commit to this person and their family?

  • Why  should I (re)marry now? Are we all ready?

  • Bioparents: "If we can't find compromises, can I usually put our relationship before my kids' needs without excessive guilt?"
    Stepparents: "Am I convinced that my partner will want to put our relationship ahead of my stepkids' needs often enough for me? (Doing so protects everyone from re/divorce, long-term).

  • What are my other options now?

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