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Partners and/or ex mates having many of these false-self traits Excessive urgency to cohabit and/or re/wed - dating less than 18-24 months A bioparent saying "My child/ren will always come first with me" Recent or chronic major ex-mate hostility and conflict Assuming significant stepfamily-member dislikes or antagonisms will improve Many recent major life changes A history of unsuccessful or no intimate adult relationships Prior romantic/sexual affairs |
A partner ignoring major doubts or ambivalence about re/marriage Any co-parent having major debts. Partners ignoring co-parent Projects 1-7 or equivalent Past or current ex-mate court battles and/or police involvements Past or current adult or child addictions Kids with major health, school, social, and/or parental problems Co-parents keeping major secrets Partners often avoiding conflicts and repressing emotions Any co-parent denying their step- family identity and what it means |
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The more of these signs courting couples have and ignore, the higher their odds of psychological or legal re/divorce. See this and this for more detail. slides / Project 7 overview, guidebook, and links / close |
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