|
All adults and kids need to feel respected enough by them-selves and the people who mean the most to them. So our ruling personality subselves constantly decode others' behaviors for implied signs of disrespect. We can perceive accurately or not that another person's attitude about us is...
= "I feel we're equals in dignity and worth now. I respect your and my needs equally now." Communication works best when each person (a) is guided by their true Self (capital "S") and (b) receives genuine " =/= " R-mes-sages from their partner/s. more detail / guidebook / article / close |
"I'm
1-up (superior) -
my needs matter most to me now."
"I'm
1-down (inferior)
- your needs matter most to me now."