When all young Vulnerable, Guardian, and Regular subselves genuinely trust the true Self and Higher Power to lead them, "blending" (Self-disabling) does not occur - even in inner-family and relationship crises and conflicts.

When this is true, people report feeling some mix of grounded, alert, calm, centered, awake, serene, focused, connected, resilient, firm, decisive, "up,"  energized, aware, realistically-optimistic, confident, and/or "light."   

Many co-parents are often controlled by a false self and don't know it. Project 1 focuses on assessing for this and related wounds, and freeing the Self (capital "S") to harmonize and lead the other personality subselves.