Break the [wounds + unawareness] cycle and guard your descendents

How Business Executives
 
Can Help Others Prevent
Family Stress and Divorce

By Peter K. Gerlach, MSW

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Option: Alert Related Organizations

        Your organization probably interacts with other charitable and for-profit enterprises to do its work. Though their charter, policies, and operations may differ significantly from yours, they all are subject to the toxic effects of the [wounds + ignorance] cycle.

        Pause and reflect - which other organizations are most important to your own? Think for a moment about the decision-makers in them. Do you feel they would be interested in learning about the cycle and its effects on their productivity and effectiveness? Would it benefit your organization to alert them?

        The most direct, impactful way of doing so is to propose a personal briefing on the cycle for their CEO and/or personnel or human resource directors. Another way is to compose a concise description of...

  • the cycle and its organizational effects, and...

  • options for reducing the effects - and adding it to your Web site. (Option - use this address http://sfhelp.org/prevent/intro.htm - with appropriate credits.)

Then notify appropriate contacts in each organization of the Web address of this description and its purpose, and the benefits of studying and acting on it.

        Another option is ask people in your organization who meet with members of related organizations to say a few words to them about the cycle, and give them a descriptive handout and/or reading list like this one.

        Another option is to make a display or presentation on preventing the cycle and its effects at a business conference which your other organizations attend. Another option is to publish an article or series in appropriate print and electronic trade publications.

       There are many different ways you can choose to alert the people in related organizations - these are suggestive. A key is keeping a clear vision of the human and corporate good that can come from making the effort to do so!


Option: Alert the Public

        A final way you can help to reduce and break the [wounds + ignorance] cycle is to inform other people in your region or country as a public service. See this for an overview of many ways to do this.

        As we end, take a moment to identify how you stand on the key ideas in this series and article: 

Status Check

        Reflect - which subselves are guiding your personality right now? How do they feel about proactively alerting your co-workers and audience to the [wounds + ignorance] cycle now? T = "true;" F = "false,' and ? = "I'm not sure," or "I'm ambivalent, so far."

  • I have honestly assessed whether false-self wounds and related ignorance are harming me and my family now, and threatening my descendents  (T  F ?)

  • I clearly understand each of the six topics that comprise the cycle now, or I'm motivated to get clearer on them in the next several weeks  (T  F ?)

  • I can now describe to an average adolescent (a) how the cycle passes down the generations, and (b) the main personal and social effects of the cycle or I'm committed to learning these in the next several weeks (T  F ?)

  • From one (trivial) to ten (extremely serious and impactful), I feel this [wounds + ignorance] cycle ranks as a ___ compared to other major social problems  (T  F ?) 

  • I have honestly assessed the nurturance-level of my work environment, and am content with what I found  (T  F ?)   

  • I feel solidly motivated to alert my co-workers and colleagues to the cycle - or at least one or more of the component topics - and what it means to them personally and professionally now  (T  F ?)

  • When I'm old, I want the satisfaction of knowing I patiently and creatively used my talents, knowledge and energy to help people guard themselves and their kids from the impacts of this [wounds + ignorance] cycle.  (T  F ?)

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Recap

        This article is one of a series that focuses on how average lay and professional people can help to break the [wounds + ignorance] cycle that is silently eroding American marriages, families, and our nation's wholistic health. The article focuses on specific ways that executives in any charitable or for-profit organization can help to do this, once they learn six core topics and evaluate themselves and their families for toxic effects of the cycle.

        The first essential step for executives - starting at board-chairperson and CEO levels - to adopt the attitude that reducing the effects of this cycle is in the best interest of your employees, customers, shareholders, and the public, and is a moral obligation. This humanistic view must supercede the traditional capitalistic attitude that effective business relationships should implicitly exclude employees' personal problems or goals.

        Key cycle-breaking options include...

  • evaluating the nurturance-level of your organization, and taking proactive steps to raise it, as needed;

  • alerting (a) your top, middle, and first-line managers, (b) all other employees, (c) your customers, and (d) your stockholders to the cycle, its personal and business effects, and what to do about them;

  • strategically weaving key cycle-topics into (a) employee performance reviews (b) staff development programs, and (c) hiring and termination procedures;

  • deciding if, how, and when to alert any active (or future) (c) unions and (d) support organizations like subcontracted Employee Assistance Plans (EAPs). Health Maintenance Organizations (HMOs)  and insurance carriers; and possibly...

  • alerting the local or general public as a community service.

        Major benefits for your investing in such cycle-breaking steps include (a) great personal satisfaction, (b) lower employee turnover and retraining expenses, (c) higher employee productivity and morale; (d) lower employee-benefit expenses, and (e) a public image of being "a good place to work."

        Not investing in these prevention steps risks mediocre or poor organizational performance, and passively contributing to the decay of our nation and culture. How much are such benefits worth to you now?

        Can you name other organizational goals that are more important, long range? If you have an organizational mission or vision statement, would it be useful to revise it to include the spirit of these practicalhumanistic steps?

        Reflect - why did you read this article? If you didn't get what you needed - what do you need now?

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